visą dieną prasiknisau, jau prarandu viltį  :(
neina pingas ir vieno potinklio į kitą, gal žinot kurioj vietoj rankos 
kreivos? dėkoju. Jie reikia daugiau info mielai duosiu :)

kaunas-gw:~# ipsec up kaunas-vilnius
initiating IKE_SA 'kaunas-vilnius' to 88.119.144.49
IKE_SA 'kaunas-vilnius' state change: CREATED => CONNECTING
generating IKE_SA_INIT request 0 [ SA KE No N(NATD_S_IP) N(NATD_D_IP) ]
sending packet: from 88.119.128.22[500] to 88.119.144.49[500]
received packet: from 88.119.144.49[500] to 88.119.128.22[500]
parsed IKE_SA_INIT response 0 [ SA KE No N(NATD_S_IP) N(NATD_D_IP) ]
authentication of 'kaunas.webmedia.lt' (myself) with pre-shared key
establishing CHILD_SA
generating IKE_AUTH request 1 [ IDi IDr AUTH CP SA TSi TSr ]
sending packet: from 88.119.128.22[500] to 88.119.144.49[500]
received packet: from 88.119.144.49[500] to 88.119.128.22[500]
parsed IKE_AUTH response 1 [ IDr AUTH SA TSi TSr N(AUTH_LFT) ]
authentication of 'vilnius.webmedia.lt' with pre-shared key successful
IKE_SA 'kaunas-vilnius' state change: CONNECTING => ESTABLISHED
scheduling reauthentication in 10069s
maximum IKE_SA lifetime 10609s
IKE_SA 'kaunas-vilnius' established between 
88.119.128.22[kaunas.webmedia.lt]...[vilnius.webmedia.lt]88.119.144.49
installing new virtual IP 192.168.46.253
CHILD_SA 'kaunas-vilnius' established successfully

kaunas-gw:~# ipsec route kaunas-vilnius
routing CHILD_SA
CHILD_SA routed

kaunas-gw:~# ipsec statusall
Performance:
   uptime: 51 seconds, since Nov 18 23:28:40 2008
   worker threads: 10 idle of 16, job queue load: 0, scheduled events: 3
   loaded plugins: ldap gmp random x509 pubkey hmac xcbc openssl stroke
Listening IP addresses:
   88.119.128.22
   192.168.46.253
Connections:
kaunas-vilnius: 
88.119.128.22[kaunas.webmedia.lt]...88.119.144.49[vilnius.webmedia.lt]
kaunas-vilnius:    192.168.46.0/24 === 192.168.49.0/24
Security Associations:
kaunas-vilnius[1]: ESTABLISHED, 
88.119.128.22[kaunas.webmedia.lt]...88.119.144.49[vilnius.webmedia.lt]
kaunas-vilnius[1]: IKE SPIs: 3d185a1db0a88c7a_i* 6f950f9cafcb43c0_r, 
reauthentication in 2 hours
kaunas-vilnius[1]: IKE proposal: 
AES_CBC-128/HMAC_SHA1_96/PRF_HMAC_SHA1/MODP_2048_BIT
kaunas-vilnius{1}:  INSTALLED, TUNNEL, ESP SPIs: cb2b6933_i cc741dda_o
kaunas-vilnius{1}:  AES_CBC-128/HMAC_SHA1_96, rekeying in 46 minutes, 
last use: no_i no_o
kaunas-vilnius{1}:   192.168.46.0/24 === 192.168.49.0/24
kaunas-vilnius{2}:  ROUTED, TUNNEL
kaunas-vilnius{2}:   192.168.46.0/24 === 192.168.49.0/24
ipsec strongswan